Don’t Judge Others

Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay no attention to the plank in your own eye?” Mathew 7:3

Too many pass judgement on others, when their closest is full of sin!

There’s a homeless man with a sign asking for food, you think to yourself he’s too lazy to keep a job. Yet you have changed jobs 3 times in the last year. When in reality he was a veteran fighting for this country. He’s seen things he can’t process, so he’s lost not only some of his fellow marines; he’s lost his family. So he’s alone & needs someone to care & love him.

There’s an underage, unwed girl in your town. You think she’s a slut, who you don’t want your daughter hanging out with. Yet when you were younger, you slept with many people yourself. What you don’t know is this girl never got love from her family. Her father is an alcoholic, and beats on her mom. She just wants to be loved. She’s scared yet puts on a front to try to keep from getting hurt.

A large person walks into a restaurant with a buffet, and you make a rude comment. Yet you overindulgence by seeing how much you can eat. This person is trying to lose wait, yet they have a medical condition. They have been called fat all their life and don’t have a strong support system. All they want is society to love them & accept them.

“Accept the one whose faith is weak, without quarreling over disputable matters. One person’s faith allows them to eat anything, but another, whose faith is weak, eats only vegetables.” Romans 14:1-2

A family member comes out they are gay. They are scared but are tired of hiding. Instead of loving them for the person they have always been, you past judgment on them. Just like every other situation mentioned above, you judge others by the way they look, or the sin itself. When you have a closet full of skeletons yourself.

And as they continued to ask him, he stood up and said to them, “Let him who is without sin among you be the first to throw a stone at her.” John 8:7

We feel the need to judge others, although the only one that is meant to is the good Lord himself.

“For the Lord is our judge; the Lord is our lawgiver; the Lord is our king; he will save us.” Ephesians 33:22

We are out on this earth to love others! Guide them on their journey, and show them what Gods love can do for them. We are meant to follow the Ten Commandments, and grow love for Christ!

If we pass judgement on others, the only thing that it is doing is giving people reasons to not like God. Would you want to know & love a God that won’t forgive you for your sins? Our God GAVE his ONLY son to die for each one of US! Not so we can pass hate and judgement; but so we could live and love!

Our life should be full of living! When the time comes, God and only he, will place judgement. We don’t know what anyone else is going through. So instead of tearing others down, build them up.

Shopping list for Labral Tear Surgery

First off, I want to say everyone is different and so you can tweak what you want but at least this list will get you started. Now if possible, I recommend a month worth of supplies, but I only bought 2 weeks worth. But I have been on crutches before so going to the store didn’t scare me.

• Crutches-if they do not supply them

• Shower chair- You can’t shower for 3-4 days but a chair sure helps If your tub is too high a shower chair with a transfer bench.

• Ice packs-I didn’t get an ice machine, although I wish I would have. But I had plenty of ice packs.

• Cooler-keep your drink cool and you don’t have to get up as much the first week. Plus you can set things on it. I keep it by the couch.

•Trash can right beside you. In case of nausea or trash.

• Grabber- This is for you to help pull pants up, get things, etc. They have a device where it helps put your socks on too.

• Something easy to eat first couple days, especially if you are nauseous. Example: chicken noodle soup.

• Healthy snacks-lots of protein

• Food for at least 2-3 weeks, easy to make food, or pre-make your food for crockpot dinners.

• Drinks, 7up, Sprite, Sierra Mist, juice, anything healthy, breakfast shakes, etc.

• If you have animals, food for them if they will need it. So you are not lifting right after surgery

• Pillows if you don’t have more than one already. I had 3.

• Toilet seat riser- although I didn’t get this, it does make it easier.

•Journal to write in, books to read, movies to watch, games to play! Something to keep you busy as you are not too mobile.

•Comfortable stretchy clothes. First few days I would wear something baggy enough to fit over your brace.

•Slip on shoes, if you don’t have someone to help you.

Afterwards just go do something before surgery, Get outside, enjoy the sun if possible, or take whoever will be helping you out.